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MEDDING: It means mindfulness, home yoga, meditation, etc.

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Tommy Angelo

POSTED Jan 22, 2016

Tommy discusses his self-titled concept of Medding with a little help from fellow RIO gurus Sean Lefort, Seth Davies and Nick Howard.

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MDLMN 9 years, 2 months ago

nice video :)

I think medding can be very helpful for poker players to stay calm/relaxed during a session, but also outside of poker. It also helped me to be more confident on the tables.

Gay Theory 9 years, 2 months ago

Children are natural Zen masters; their world is brand new in each and every moment.

Jeffrey Mulder 9 years, 2 months ago

Tommy, thank you again for another wonderful video. As a background, I am a physician who specializes in bariatric medicine which is treating people with severe weight issues. As most physicians who do this area of work know, mental factors are perhaps the most important aspect of treating people with weight problems. So many people have developed no positive coping strategies for dealing with life stressors. Eating and especially mindless eating habits are developed very early in life, and often people have never developed other coping strategies. I always talk about the importance of finding helpful, non harmful coping tools, and I often talk about meditation, mindful eating, exercise,, and yoga. I loved your analogy of using these tools as "losing mental weight". With your permission, I would love to use this term with my patients. I think it is a beautiful, simple, but powerful illustration which will resonate with people.

Sorry if this is a digression from poker, which by the way I love. As with so many of your videos, there is so much greater life wisdom there. I am very appreciative. Jeff

Tommy Angelo 9 years, 2 months ago

Hi Jeffrey,

Thank you for the encouragement.

I am a physician who specializes in bariatric medicine which is treating people with severe weight issues. ... I always talk about the importance of finding helpful, non harmful coping tools, and I often talk about meditation, mindful eating, exercise, and yoga.

Very cool that you are teaching this stuff in that field. For me, mindful eating was made possible by meditation, and I don't think it would have ever been available to me otherwise. I need a fork to eat sushi now because I only want small bites!

I loved your analogy of using these tools as "losing mental weight". With your permission, I would love to use this term with my patients. I think it is a beautiful, simple, but powerful illustration which will resonate with people.

I chuckled at "with your permission" and here's why. It's a draft of the intro to the Acknowledgments section of a book I'm working on. Somewhere in here is the answer to your question. :-)

EXCERPT:

Here’s why I don’t trust my sense of mine. I’ll have a cool idea and I’ll think, That’s fresh! I made that up! And then a year later, while rereading something I read two years prior, I’ll come across my idea, right where I first discovered it.

That kind of thing has happened a lot.

And then there’s the non-stop pilfering of words and ideas, from people I know, and people I don’t, further clouding my perception of mine.

But the main complication comes from connectedness itself.

I have many times zoomed out to see my body as being connected to all of the life and all of the death on earth. By “connected,” I mean, “touching,” as in, “in constant contact with.” Molecules come into me − through my lungs, my gut, and my skin. And they move out. Living material becomes dead. Dead material comes to life. Is a molecule of my poop alive? Is it mine?

Same with thought. Zoomed out, I perceive my mind and everyone else’s as being connected to the sum total of all thought at all times. Words and ideas enter our minds. Some die there, and others get passed along. All input is always mixed with what’s already there, and this mixing causes spontaneous new growth. And we call that growth “original.” But is it?

Every thought bud is unique in the same way that every leaf bud is unique. They are unique by nature, so I put no value on their uniqueness. The tree is the thing because if you got no tree, you get no buds. Without the pre-existing thoughts and culture that are in us and around us always, ideas would have nothing from which to sprout. Everything relies.

DaveBravo 9 years, 2 months ago

Thank you, Tommy. I really enjoy your videos and books, and have for years.

I was wondering: Do you have any thoughts on using mantras in meditation?

Tommy Angelo 9 years, 1 month ago

I was wondering: Do you have any thoughts on using mantras in meditation?

I was raised Catholic. We used rosary beads to count off ten Hail Mary's and one Our Father, then repeat. Looking back, I see that as a mantra-based meditation activity.

I do think that any sitting practice should include some time that involves no electronics or mantras, when the objective is to return to breathing and posture over and over. In addition to that, I think any and all add-ons (for example, mantras) are good.

bttard 9 years, 1 month ago

...and then you die. Lol, think I nearly never laughed that hard in my life being alone in front of a screen :)

How much do you think does it affect the medding doing it in the afternoon instead of the morning? And having "unstable" times but doing atleast 20 minutes a day? Better do just 25 each day or stretch it from time to time but only doing as much as you feel like on other days?

Curious what you got to say, love every single video of yours and love the part about giving more and more and not needing to take as much to be happy. So true for me

Peace

Tommy Angelo 9 years, 1 month ago

Hi bttard,

..and then you die. Lol, think I nearly never laughed that hard in my life being alone in front of a screen :)

:-)

How much do you think does it affect the medding doing it in the afternoon instead of the morning?

The "quality" of the medding, and by that I mean the level of concentration and stillness that is likely to be reached, is considerably higher in the first part of the day compared to the middle or end of the day, based on my experience and what I've learned from others.

And having "unstable" times but doing atleast 20 minutes a day? Better do just 25 each day or stretch it from time to time but only doing as much as you feel like on other days?

I think it's way better to do some everyday no matter how little it is, than to plan on skipping days. That way there's always an opportunity to stretch and push your practice, or keep it small and slight and just going through the motions− on a day by day basis. When you know you will practice every day, it takes all the pressure off of "did I do enough today?" Or "did I do it right today?" None of that matters, because you know for sure that barring death (:-)) you have thousands of consecutive days of practice ahead. And you know that you and your practice will never stop changing.

As to morning vs not-morning, I think doing your practice within the first couple hours of when you wake up is way better than any other option, for two big reasons:

You get the most EV from your practice by having more of your day come after it than before.

And this is the bigger thing:

You are very much more likely to maintain dailyness if you leave nothing to chance. By waiting until, say "after lunch," on some days, you bring let's say a 5% to 10% chance that you won't do it into the equation. Casinos make their living off 5% to 10%. Just saying.

bttard 9 years, 1 month ago

Thanks brother, and thanks for the great stuff you provide. Never heard of the mind being the 6th sense, but after starting meditation and training more and more; that was exactly my thought process and it helped me a lot in being able to consciously switch inbetween the senses and starting meditating more focused.

You do great stuff, especially with all the ideas and the way you visualize your videos. Get a lot out of it. Keep the great work up!

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