Teaching poker to your kids? Any negative experiences?
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Teaching poker to your kids? Any negative experiences?
Hi all, father of a 3 1/2 year old here.
My little daughter recently has put an eye on the poker chips in our shelf and asked me what they are about. I was explaining it to her a bit and we started playing this little poker-alike card game where we simply get a handful of chips and we iteratively get dealt two cards. The better hand wins. So of course for a three year old a huge portion of this game is to simply explore the different picture cards (king, queen, jack), counting the number of symbols printed on the lower cards to derive whether a card represents a 7 or a deuce (or whatever number) and she didn't even pick up on the suits yet :-D
Now I do have to say that she directly got very much overly excited about this game in order to see who "wins" each flip. A good friend of mine (no poker background) now confronted me with this game fostering gambling behavior and there being a reason why games like poker have an age restriction, essentially arguing it would be way too early to introduce a game with clear gambling elements.
Does anyone with older kids have experiences and an opinion on this? How did this go for you?
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I guess I can understand if someone has an objection to gambling, but I use this as a way to frame less outcome-based behavior in my kids. E.g. AA vs. KK wins a specific percentage of the time, and KK wins the remaining percentage of the time. So as these things have elapsed, my son (13 y/o) is able to understand at a deeper level about how I don't care about results, I care about making the best decisions you can with the information you have.
So now, he looks at things from a less perfectionistic mindset and more of a "did I do the best job that I could, and did I think the process through" - if he did, then the results don't matter. Keep making good decisions over time.
Its an abstract twist on it, but thats worked for me with my kids.
very nice
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