Where do you guys play?

Is nl50, nl100 softer on euro sites like BetVictor (prima) or iPoker than on PokerStars? 

I know they also offer good deals like 40% rakeback but their rake is bigger ... so i'm not sure the deals are better that Pokerstars' Supernova.

I played quite a bit on Winamax (France) and the games were softer that on PS but rake was about 2 times bigger and i didn't do as good in those games. (also rakeback sucked, something like 10%)