Hello deyverpoker,

Preflop 3b is fine, however you chose quite a large 3b sizing OOP for these eff. stacks facing a min-raise. I'd advocate a 7 to 8bb sized 3-bet vs. a min open OOP and at 100bb eff stacks.

I think flop is a clear check. This is a great hand to be checking because you'll also want to be check/folding some hands that whiffed this flop and you don't really get value by betting. Your hand also needs minimal protection since you do have a middling pair and outs to a flush. Villain also has many potential bluffs here: J9s/J8s/98s/AJ/KJ/XXhh

Turn I think can still go either way on this particular turn. As played I think you should choose a much larger sizing as we can polarize our range here with AK with a spade, KJ with a spade, AJ with a spade, etc.

River I'd x/f. Villain would have to be turning a pair of Ts or Qs into a bluff here. We should also be checking this river with a pretty high frequency imo. Villain's most likely holding as played is undoubtably AsQx.

I think OTF you can go either way. I think betting is good because you can build a pot when you hit your hand or if it comes to it you can decide to turn your hand into a bluff on a later street, betting keeps your options more open which is why I would lean towards a bet, but checking is good as well because your hand is good here sometimes and some villains if you check this flop and if the flush comes in turn or river they'll never give you credit for it so you do have some deceptive value and checking this hand protects you when you check things like AK AJ here.

Turn as played is fine.

River is kinda close IMO. If you think he might turn some 2 pair and sets into a bluff here your getting a great price to call and your hand just looks so face up and you almost never have the nuts here so I don't hate a call. So without any reads I think I'd lean towards a fold but I don't hate your call and I think you'll be good here sometimes.

No need for sorrow my friend!!
Nice posting guys!