hero 17.15 LJ
villain 20.38 UTG2

folds to villain who opens to .52 I 3bet with AhQh to 1.19, everone folds back around to villain who just calls.

pot 2.55
board 9hQd5s

villain checks, I bet 1.54 he calls

pot 5.48
board 9hQd5s 8s

villain checks, I bet 4.32, villain min raises to 8.64...

this is where I have the most confusion, I feel like calling is bad sense if he jams river I'm folding most of the time, but it feels gross to fold here to the min raise and if I 4bet jam my last 6 bucks in here if called I'm almost never good. so to be honest I called his min raise river was the Jh he opened shoved and I folded... just looking for any advice I'm sure the river is a clear fold so I'm guessing maybe I shoulda just let her go on 4th st. thx in advance for any comments :)