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Need Help from Poker Community

Hey RIO,

It's been awhile since I was really active in the forums but some of you might remember me. Unfortunately this is not a "happy" post. Tuesday of this week my mother had quadruple bypass open heart surgery. The surgery went well, she is recovering in ICU still and had a partial lung collapse today which they fixed right away. Now, she is the strongest person I have ever met on this earth (she had a heart attack Friday and didn't even visit the ER until Monday morning and that's when they found the blocked arteries). When she was 18 she was abducted in the middle of winter and spent 3 days locked in a trunk before someone finally found her. This resulted in frostbite and the loss of all of her toes on both feet. She never once felt sorry for herself, never let it restrict her life and I believe that is one of the reasons she has been so strong throughout life. I have no doubt that she will make a full recovery and will probably feel better than ever.

I am not making this post just to tell you all about my mom. I am making this post to ask for help. I have been playing poker professionally for ~1 1/2 years now. I am still playing small stakes though so I don't have a bunch of extra money, my mom has no insurance and not much money in the bank. I will do everything I can to help her emotionally and financially just like she has done for me growing up. As a matter of fact I wouldn't be taking this shot at professional poker if it wasn't for her, she believed I was smart enough to do it and she gave me the financial freedom to take a real shot by letting me live an expense free life while I was learning and building a bank roll (basically all of 2013). Now I want to try to help her out, I don't want her to stress out about this ridiculous hospital bill. My sister has set up a GoFundMe account and I can think of no better place to turn than the poker community. So if you have a few minutes please check out this site, myself and my family will be incredibly grateful for any donations, every dollar counts. GoFundMe Page

Thanks to everyone who has taken the time to read this. I really can't think of a better place to ask for help than RIO. While poker has gotten a lot more mainstream acceptance over the last decade there are still many people who think poker players are just degenerate gamblers looking to hustle everyone. If we were sitting across from each other at a green felted table we would be trying to hustle each other and take each others money but when the game is over so is the hustle. As a community I think we can do pretty impressive things when we put our minds to it. Right now I hope we can raise a little money so my mom can worry about recovery and not about how she is going to be able to pay for the surgery that saved and extended her life. Personally I can think of nothing more depressing than having a life extended only to have those extra years filled with more stress and worry over money.

Thanks for listening RIO,
- arizonabay

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arizonabay 9 years, 11 months ago

Just wanted to post an update - she is doing a little better now. She is still in hospital, which is a little longer than the original expectation. The surgeon said if all goes well she would be home in 3-4 days and it has now been 6 days. They expect her to be in at least a couple more days. Finally removed the final chest tube today!

We have managed to raise some money so far and I would like to thank anyone who has donated so far. Most donations have been anonymous so I can't thank anyone by name but thanks go out to you anyways. No words can express mine and my families gratitude. While I would really like to raise a lot more money every little bit helps. I know my mom is very worried about missing work and how she will pay any bills let alone the hospital bill. What has been raised so far will help immensely. Obviously I will be doing anything I can for her financially (by paying off small bills and w/e), emotionally, and physically (by giving her someone to go walking with and making sure she does go walking - at the very least).

Also the higher ups at RunItOnce deserve and extra special thanks for allowing me to post this on their site and, again, I don't really have the words to properly express to them how grateful I am. Also a big thanks needs to go out to Phil Galfond for having the vision of creating not just a training site but a community for learning/improving at poker that has evolved to a community of learning/getting better at poker and life in general. This site really does have a "family" feel to it.

Link again - https://www.gofundme.com/ugrpu4 - believe me I understand if you don't have any extra money to donate to someone you have never met before but if you do have a couple of seconds free, please visit the link - every dollar raised reduces the amount of stress my mom faces exponentially.

Dddogkillah 9 years, 8 months ago

What up man GL with this!!! Hope all goes you and your families way!!!
Rich

arizonabay 9 years, 7 months ago

Thanks a lot, I really appreciate it! Things have been going ok, it hasn't been a smooth sail (but it wasn't expected to be). Been going back and forth with doctors changing meds trying to find the right balance. Seems like they might have it right this time and she is back to work part time and feeling much better than the doctors say should be given her heart rate and other things. So we are optimistic.

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