Hello everybody, Happy new year to all of you :), I am a kinda new Poker player (8 months), i started my poker journey by navigating through different limits, trying all sort of things, spin n goes sit n goes etc, going though upswings downsings tilts and all that kind of stuff i am assuming every poker player especially a new one will have to face!! after the first few months playing only tournaments i decided that it was not the best way to build a bankroll and i started playing cash games, after carefully analyzing what happened i can say with confidence that my biggest problem was, controlling tilt, and the way my mental state and psychology is overoverover affecting my game, i can not remember losing a session when being happy and confident, or winning a session when feeling mad,tilted,and i know that you should not be playing under this circumstances but i just could not help it, taking "shots" with my whole bankroll as a buy in etc, in a miraculous way i managed to never lose everything(only deposit is 20$)i even managed to buy the 5400 stars hoodie, my stats were something like(only 2 months using pokertracker and restarted database for my new start,now). +10bb/100 at 2NL 45k hands(positions,Co + 39./100)(Bu +1./100!!!???? and this seems so akward for me that i can not explain, yes i am sure i did not mess up and the stats were just like that) , -2bb/100 5NL 60k hands -3bb/100 10NL 30-40k hands +13bb/100 25NL 22k hands , and 2-3 stacks lost at 50NL, I am sure this was not running bad or running good because i remember myself being crappy and tilted whenever having a bad start on a session and playing super bad for the rest of it,and the opposite, Now i want to take the game seriously and never step out of my bankroll management again,maintain my good game longer,and put a stop whenever not playing good for w/e reason, so i need any advice on how to practice controlling emotion,staying away from playing when you not have to,how to realise when you are not on your good game anymore and need to stop etc,i understand that these matters i have to solve them by myself mainly and i am confident that i can avoid doing the same mistakes in future but any advice is welcome. , i would also like to know if there are any other Poker sites i should try aside of Pokerstars, maybe softer sites that you can build a bankroll easier or i can play there whenever i am feeling tired or not on my A-game to grind Pokerstars limits. Thank you :) !!